March 7 is Liberation Day, 1 Day Before Women's Day

Its official. Same shit is no more. I'll have all sorts of different shit now as I am FREEEEEEEEEEE!!!

It happened last week. My co-worker snapped me out of my 14 year dream/nightmare. I wrote him a nice goodbye email that was neither bitter no accusing. Just a simple thank you for everything and goodbye.

I needed to do it. I also erased him from all our virtual links...I felt a bit grade school doing it, but my objective was to cut and cut clean. Cold Turkey.

I have yet to feel the longing and missing part. Theres a tinge of sadness, but I haven't gone all out. I'm hoping I'll skip it altogether. This is a good thing after all. A big loss, making room for an even bigger gain.

This is THE year that I decided that i am taking over my life, and I will not just let my life happen to me. Wow! Just help me get through the occassional blues, because already, with this simple but tough move, I've stopped hurting 3 people.